My Loved One Has Been Diagnosed with Dementia—Now What?

My Loved One Has Been Diagnosed with Dementia—Now What?

Hearing that a loved one has been diagnosed with dementia can be overwhelming. Whether the diagnosis came after months of uncertainty or was completely unexpected, it often raises a flood of questions and emotions. You may be wondering what happens next. How will their needs change? What kind of care will they require? How can you best support them—and yourself?

We understand how challenging this moment can be. While every family’s experience with dementia is unique, there are steps you can take to begin this journey with clarity, compassion, and confidence.

1. Take Time to Understand the Diagnosis

Start by gathering as much information as you can about your loved one’s specific type of dementia. “Dementia” is an umbrella term that describes a range of cognitive impairments, with Alzheimer’s disease being the most common. Others include vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, and frontotemporal dementia.

Ask your loved one’s doctor to explain:

  • The type and stage of dementia
  • What symptoms to expect now and in the future
  • Recommended treatments or therapies
  • Safety concerns to be aware of

Knowledge is empowering. Understanding how the disease may progress can help you make informed decisions and prepare for what’s ahead. You may also want to explore resources from reputable organizations such as the Alzheimer’s Association or attend local workshops and educational events.

2. Start the Difficult Conversations Sooner Rather Than Later

Once the initial emotions settle, it’s important to talk with your loved one while they’re still able to participate in decision-making. These conversations may feel uncomfortable, but they are key to respecting your loved one’s autonomy and honoring their wishes.

Topics to discuss may include:

  • Power of attorney for healthcare and finances
  • A living will or advance directive
  • Plans for where and how care will be provided as the disease progresses
  • End-of-life preferences

Write things down, involve other family members as appropriate, and consider consulting with an elder law attorney to help ensure everything is legally documented.

3. Build a Circle of Support

You may feel like you have to do it all, but you don’t, and you shouldn’t. As your loved one’s needs increase, so will the emotional and physical demands on you as a caregiver.

Now is the time to build your support system. This might include:

Support doesn’t just lighten the load—it helps you feel less alone. 

4. Look Ahead to Care Options

In the early stages of dementia, your loved one may be able to remain safely at home with minimal assistance. But over time, more structured support may become necessary to ensure safety, health, and well-being.

That’s where Meth-Wick’s status as a Life Plan Community makes a meaningful difference. Because we offer a full continuum of care on one campus—from independent living to memory care to skilled nursing—residents can transition smoothly within one campus as their needs change.

We offer a neighborhood approach to memory care, a setting designed to feel like home, with routines that offer structure, dignity, and reassurance. Our team is specially trained in dementia-specific care and partners closely with families to create personalized support plans that reflect each resident’s unique abilities and preferences. Residents in our memory care neighborhood benefit from:

  • Safe, secure surroundings
  • Personalized activities that encourage engagement and enjoyment
  • Assistance with daily living while honoring independence
  • A consistent care team that fosters trust and connection

Many families find peace of mind knowing their loved one is surrounded by professional care, a supportive community, and the continuity that comes from staying within a trusted environment.

5. Don’t Forget to Care for Yourself

Being a caregiver is one of the most loving things you can do—but it’s also one of the hardest. It’s easy to become so focused on your loved one that you neglect your own needs. Caregiver burnout is real, and it can take a toll on your physical, emotional, and mental health.

Remember to:

  • Take breaks, even short ones
  • Maintain social connections
  • Ask for help when you need it
  • Seek respite care, counseling, or support groups when feeling overwhelmed

You’ll be in a better position to support your loved one if you’re caring for yourself, too.

You’re Not Alone—We’re Here to Help

A dementia diagnosis may feel like a new and uncertain chapter, but it’s not one you have to face alone. At Meth-Wick, we’re here to support families with guidance, education, and personalized care options that evolve as your loved one’s needs change.

If you’re ready to learn more about our living options for your loved one, or simply need a conversation to help clarify your next steps, please contact us today.